Re: Brother wants to marry his girlfrend and let her make life and death decisions...
I looked up that type of cancer and I can say, although it may look bleak, just knowing he's young makes a very big difference in his prognosis.
I think getting married will boost his spirits. Yes, she is young, but that is part of what seals them together and it will help them if they stick together as a team.
Chemo and or radiation will take out a lot as well, so as you become familiar with the treatments you will at least feel more in control, I hope. With cancer like this, it's hard, I know. I hope you guys were able to soothe him if even just with your presence.
I hope he's well enough to enjoy some fun on Saturday. And to get the necessary paperwork filled out.
Did you get to find out his chemo schedule?
I'm not opposed to the idea that they move in with family IF they would have their own private space. As sick as he is, and with a newborn, they will need the help! She can't do both on her own.
Keep us updated, and keep sharing, venting and asking advice. Are you in the US ?