Horselady

Hmm been living with someone for a while no family and ive felt v unhappy the last 2 years and have been wanting to pluck the courage up to go. In between while in march this year i stupidly met someone else and have totally fallen in love with him. I just cant decide what to do.

s.k

If you want to leave then leave the person that you are with deserves to know what feelings are involved in the relationship that they are in. Before you leave i do think that you should let your bf know for what reason you leaving.

EleGirl

Yep, you are not married. Just leave.

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taylorburton

Do what makes you happiest. If being in this relationship makes you unhappy, you should leave and enter into the one that does make you happy.

NaturalHeart

What is it that makes you want to stay?

speakingforsomemen

EleGirl said it best. If you are not married, count your blessings, no kids, you kiddin me? Go, Vamos, hit the road, be happy. What in the world is tying you down?

aznmommy3

You're not married. You're un-happy. You have no reason to stay. Move on and find happiness. Don't stay in your relationship and be miserable.

Jellybeans

You have two choices: sh!t or get off the pot.

Cheating doesn't resolve the main issue. As you have now learned. It only complicates everything.

turnera

Go ahead and leave if you're not happy. That said, if you don't get help for learning why you can cheat on someone, you'll just end up cheating on THIS guy, and on and on.

Read this book to learn what a healthy, normal relationship looks like, and what is required by BOTH of you. I have a feeling you haven't been investing in your relationship properly. The book may help you do better in the next one. It's called His Needs Her Needs, by Harley.