12-20-2011, 02:20 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
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Originally Posted by Laurae1967
This is not normal or acceptable behavior. Your man should NEVER be violent with you.....for ANY reason. That, for me, is a deal breaker. Your kids should not be in this environment and frankly, your kids could be taken away from you if you allow this abuse to continue. They should not be witnessing such things.
The other issue of the exwife calling is also a problem. He seems to have a problem setting boundaries with her and maybe is still in love with her.
I would get some counseling for yourself to figure out what is best for YOU and your kids. But bringing them up in a violent, angry environment is HORRIBLE for them and you really have a responsibility as a parent to bring them up in a calm, peaceful, SAFE family unit....which you currently don't have.