Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
Re: his ex is killing us
You knew, that marrying divorcees, can be a problem, and that his kids, will probably always hold sway over you.
That never gives him the right to abuse you. It is time you stopped the arguing, and just plain, either set up boundaries, or tell him, the mge., is over.
You have never forced him to face consequences, now is the time, for consequences to happen.
Also you need to tell him point blank---if HE EVER LAYS A FINGER ON YOU AGAIN IN ANGER, he will find himself not only IN JAIL, but defending a D. action.
Unfortunately, there probably is no other way to get his attention, and your continued arguing, just leaves you living in misery, and a very unhealthy situation for all the kids.
Time to face him down, and back him off!!!!!