...but that he is with my because I'm a good wife and we get along well. Followed by, "Eh, it's ok, definitely have had better. Who am I to complain, some married folks don't get it at all. Like you (laughing)." Which I can easily assume was about our sex life. He didn't know I was home when he said it, he was talking online to one (or more) of his friends while playing a game. I don't know what's worse, hearing him say that or him saying it to his friend(s). I see his friends a few times a month and since his friends all blabber they probably all know that he thinks I'm ugly and suck at sex.
I have been with my husband for 2 years. He's a really attractive man. I have never felt ugly next to him but I don't feel like I'm as attractive as he is. I haven't had a lot of self-confidence issues until now. I was single for nearly a decade after getting divorced so maybe I should have...
My own husband doesn't find my attractive... Every time he's said I'm pretty, or beautiful, or sexy was a giant lie and makes everything feel like a lie. He settled for me... And what happens when someone better comes along... Now when he goes out I obsess over what he's doing, if there is someone at work he is more attracted to or... even just attracted to in general. I'm ugly and the sex sucks apparently so during does he think about someone else who he "definitely had better" sex with. Every time he glances at another woman or makes a comment about another woman's appearance it physically hurts. It didn't bother me before, everyone is attracted to other people. It bothers me now because he is attracted to all these women but not me.
My ex-husband felt the same and it makes me want to quit. He was only with me because he felt obligated to be with me, hooked up once and got pregnant. Now, my new husband settled for me because he was in his mid-30's, never married and wanted to settle down.
I feel stupid for not knowing and not figuring it out. Now I don't know where to go from here. Stay married to a man who isn't attracted to me or have two divorces and two broken families by 34?
I have been with my husband for 2 years. He's a really attractive man. I have never felt ugly next to him but I don't feel like I'm as attractive as he is. I haven't had a lot of self-confidence issues until now. I was single for nearly a decade after getting divorced so maybe I should have...
My own husband doesn't find my attractive... Every time he's said I'm pretty, or beautiful, or sexy was a giant lie and makes everything feel like a lie. He settled for me... And what happens when someone better comes along... Now when he goes out I obsess over what he's doing, if there is someone at work he is more attracted to or... even just attracted to in general. I'm ugly and the sex sucks apparently so during does he think about someone else who he "definitely had better" sex with. Every time he glances at another woman or makes a comment about another woman's appearance it physically hurts. It didn't bother me before, everyone is attracted to other people. It bothers me now because he is attracted to all these women but not me.
My ex-husband felt the same and it makes me want to quit. He was only with me because he felt obligated to be with me, hooked up once and got pregnant. Now, my new husband settled for me because he was in his mid-30's, never married and wanted to settle down.
I feel stupid for not knowing and not figuring it out. Now I don't know where to go from here. Stay married to a man who isn't attracted to me or have two divorces and two broken families by 34?