Re: Wife wants to move back home.....I don't
You are right. She is wrong. You actually tried to find work where she wants to live, but had no success. How can she fault you for actually trying, despite not wanting to? She will either come to her senses, or she'll have to move by herself. If she wants to do that, however, immediately file for divorce and be sure she cannot leave the state with your children, or you may have a huge problem seeing them in the future. In fact, since there is nothing now to stop her from doing exactly that at any time, it might be smart to file anyway, to prevent her from taking your kids away.
Love is an ideal thing; marriage is a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes unpunished. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
CELIBACY IS NOT HEREDITARY.