Ladies: Hurt Feeling - What am I missing?
Ok, this ones for the ladies (and gents if you wish... we don't really discriminate here!)
My wife (6 months pregnant) says that she can't feel passion, give kisses, etc because I have hurt her feelings too much in the past. We've only been married a little while.
Says I don't listen to her.
Says I don't care about her and her desires.
Says I don't try.
I realize that it might be the pregnancy speaking here, or perhaps I am an ignorant baffoon. I, personally, think I try very very hard. I don't get angry, I give her foot rubs nightly, I buy her cards and leave them around the house (She said to stop doing this!) I suprise her with flowers (When she gets mad, into the trash they go!) I watch TV with her for hours (I hate watching TV, but do this because she loves it) I help cook, I help clean, I do laundry, I work full time (She isn't working currently), I do the Ironing.
I'm confused. I tried to give her passionate kisses today and she said she can't kiss me deeply anymore because I've hurt her too much.
I realize women's feelings are more sensitive then men's, but what am I doing wrong here? Of all my relationships, I have never tried so hard to please anyone. I give her oral sex almost daily, and she doesn't ever return the favor (Maybe 4 times since we've been married.) She doesn't complain that physical is all I want, which I always think she'll say... so I don't get it.
It seems to be an emotional thing, but she builds walls that are getting harder and harder to scale!
Any input for a dumb brute here? What have you found that makes you feel emotionally connnected to your man when he does it?