Thanks for your recommendations.
I tuck my son into bed every night and read him a story. It's just that my wife is there next to him too.
I think I will try a date night. My wife has said no to every suggestion that we go out as a couple in the evening together. She doesn't like the idea of leaving our son with someone at night.
The only time it has happened was when we went to a dinner party with her friends and their partners. Our son spent his first whole night away from us.
When we went to bed that night with just the two of us in the house for the first time in 3 years since our son's birth, I was the first in bed while my wife was still finishing up in the bathroom. I was so excited that I would finally have her beside me for a night. When she came out of the bathroom, she stood in the bedroom doorway, blew me a kiss and went to sleep in our son's room. I was devastated.
Dragon, she is NOT in love with you. She doesn't love you anymore!!
What respectful/loving wife treats her husband like she does with you? What loving wife never sleeps in bed with her husband?
She's either emotionally attached to another man (that you're not aware of while away..) or she simply
doesn't romantically/sexually love you.
From your posts, we can tell you STILL are serving her as if you are her puppy.
How can you put up with her orders?
Don't allow her to treat you like a 4 year old kid! Because she treats you like that and you allow it, obviously she will not respect and love you!
Man up, stay firm to your beliefs, speak your mind, don't obey to her rules and you MIGHT notice any change..although it's difficult with how things are going.