12-22-2011, 02:28 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Need advice
IMO, you're not going to feel 'in love' with your wife while fantasizing about TOW. I, also, left one man for another, and I can tell you right now (after 16 yrs), that even though the grass was greener at the time, I don't feel like I have a better relationship now than I had with my ex. Each individual brings different aspects to the relationship. If you have what you call a good wife now, consider yourself lucky. What do you think your life will be like in 5 yrs with this new woman? Do you think you will stay in this 'honeymoon' phase? That's not likely, considering the fact that the 'honeymoon phase' feelings are due to chemical reactions in your
brain. Scientifically, it is practically impossible to feel that way for very long. Good luck, I hope you make the choice you'll be happy with in 10 yrs.