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post #151 of 164 (permalink) Old 03-09-2017, 08:47 AM
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Re: Flowers sent to an Italian girl

I cant believe this thread is still going...

THIS WOMAN ISNT THE ONE.... MOVE ON....


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post #152 of 164 (permalink) Old 03-09-2017, 09:34 AM
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Ha, for real.

You want some real advice? Send flowers to 20 women each day that you have never met or talked to on the phone with. The odds say you'll find the one and get laid eventually!

Hell, I didn't even charge you for that. Good luck buddy!!

Any chance you can post a pic of yourself so we can see what we're working with here?
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We'll I'm no detective, so my assumptions are based on the collaborative facts as you have given them and on real life experience and some good old common sense. I will rephrase my "hands on" comment to better address your true goal. I do not believe you will ever live happily ever after with this woman, and I do not believe you will ever land a date with this woman.
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Yeah well - some people do like to make assumptions and get their facts wrong, that's all pal
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Ha, for real.

You want some real advice? Send flowers to 20 women each day that you have never met or talked to on the phone with. The odds say you'll find the one and get laid eventually!

Hell, I didn't even charge you for that. Good luck buddy!!

Any chance you can post a pic of yourself so we can see what we're working with here?
Its not really about mass posting flowers to different women to get laid. I like this particular girl - despite the odd circumstances.
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I like this particular girl - despite the odd circumstances.
It's fine to like her, but she doesn't sound interested in having a relationship with you. Do you have plans/intentions to start dating/meeting other women?

Uh, "odd circumstances" is one way to put it, I guess. But it boils down to her not being into you. How do you intend to proceed from here?

I refuse to make anyone a priority in my life who considers me nothing more than an option.

You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.
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I think that this was a step in the right direction as long as you continue to step! Now that you know she isn't interested, I think maybe you need to look around for someone who could be interested. I've read on this site about online dating that it pretty much is a numbers game. Get on a few sites and start up some chats. Enjoy the fact that you've finally gotten past your ex.
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It's fine to like her, but she doesn't sound interested in having a relationship with you. Do you have plans/intentions to start dating/meeting other women?

Uh, "odd circumstances" is one way to put it, I guess. But it boils down to her not being into you. How do you intend to proceed from here?
"but she doesn't sound interested in having a relationship with you."
^ well she has a boyfriend.

"Do you have plans/intentions to start dating/meeting other women?"
^ no - its only been a week.

"How do you intend to proceed from here?"
^ no plans as of yet - trying to process my own emotions and motivations.
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I think that this was a step in the right direction as long as you continue to step! Now that you know she isn't interested, I think maybe you need to look around for someone who could be interested. I've read on this site about online dating that it pretty much is a numbers game. Get on a few sites and start up some chats. Enjoy the fact that you've finally gotten past your ex.
^ I'm not interested in processing the numbers - I'm not desperate - I only got to this step to think past my ex - because this girl I found to have some very particular personality, interest and physical traits.

Diane - is right in some ways about taking her off the pedestal a little - to evaluate her faults.

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I wasnt advocating that you just start trying to date anything that's out there. It was more in reference to the fact that if you do join those sites, you may not get to chat with all of the women on the sites . They may not respond [at least from what I've read]. Just suggesting a way to move forward.
In sure if you try you will find other women with the values and beliefs that you value.

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I wasnt advocating that you just start trying to date anything that's out there. It was more in reference to the fact that if you do join those sites, you may not get to chat with all of the women on the sites . They may not respond [at least from what I've read]. Just suggesting a way to move forward.
In sure if you try you will find other women with the values and beliefs that you value.
Sure - I didn't want to invest my time like this. This situation just kind of hit me. My way of moving forward is to continue with various forms of self-improvement.
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My way of moving forward is to continue with various forms of self-improvement.
Like what? Be specific.

I refuse to make anyone a priority in my life who considers me nothing more than an option.

You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.
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Like what? Be specific.
Well - like bodybuilding/power-lifting, career, book writing and film making.
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Learning to flirt is also self improvement. :-)

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