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post #31 of 87 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 01:59 PM
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I can assure you there's MUCH more to being in the "upper echelon of studly manness" than the size of your package. Most women would very much PREFER someone closer to the norm when it comes to size. That I can assure you.
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I'm sure he's playing with it just plenty! 😄

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Did it work out with your last GF? Then lube up and work it back in.
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In one case their eyes bulge out. In the other case they laugh.

Figure it out.
I was trying to be funny, no need to be so sarcastic.
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I was trying to be funny, no need to be so sarcastic.


I was trying to be funny too.
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All the data I've read has pointed to about 5.5" being the average length. Yes, those averages vary across different countries, continents, and races. The variance is not really enough to make a noticeable difference, however, usually less than a half inch. There are many anomalies at both ends of the "size" spectrum that skew the averages to some degree. The OP said his length is 8", way above average, and 6.4" in girth, also way above average. That is huge, and very rare. His size actually puts him well into the top 5% of the population, and maybe even the 1% range.
Really? I am surprised that 8 ins is so unusual.
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post #38 of 87 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 03:37 PM
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I consider 5-6" (erect) average. My boyfriend is just over 7" and there are still certain positions where I have to take a little caution.

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Well most vaginas are designed to expand enough, after all a baby can pass through.
I can understand if a man is 10 inches or more, which some are apparently, but 7 or 8 shouldn't be an issue, especially for women who have had children.
My first husband was about 7 or just over, I was also a small lady, only a size 10(american size 6-8) and I had no problems.
When it comes to girth, most women should be able to expand with enough stimulant/lubricant. The issue, when it comes to length, is that certain positions allow easier access to the cervix. Having your cervix rammed repeatedly can be uncomfortable.
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I don't think it's a matter of whether a woman can expand enough to accept a large penis. The question is whether it's comfortable and enjoyable to do so. Some women (my wife for instance) hate that stretching sensation. No matter how lubricated or turned on she is, she does not want anything stretching her.

Find a woman that likes that sensation and go with it. Heck, some women like fisting! The range in variation as to what feels good is extreme.

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There are differences in how people measure.

Then there is the semi-joke that most men will describe a coke can as being 6" tall.......

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Really? I am surprised that 8 ins is so unusual.
Surely you jest... Get a tape measure out and measure...

Most women have trouble judging size. At least that's what I have read, and I tend to believe it from my own experiences.

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@itsontherocks I see no reason this can't be a real post in spite of what some are saying. 6.4" girth is upper few percent based on another penis thread. At about 6" myself I understand what you are saying. This has been a long road for me as well and we have had to try a variety of positions, lubes and foreplay and it is still uncomfortable at times.

We looked into dialators after a talk with a sex therapist but the ones available had 3 progressive sizes that were woefully small (well below 6" with the largest). Plus they weren't very fun. Oral (bj) works great for us and that's what she prefers - frankly the size might be advantageous from an arousal standpoint there. So give it time and give lots of positive feedback. We use a vibrator extensively because clitoral stimulation is a virtual 100% assurance that she will get abused. I have to work hard to stop her from finishing sometimes

Don't give up and show humor, patience, and skills at foreplay and don't ever assume you can just jump in for a quicky.


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From what I've been told, girth is more of a problem. Do a lot of foreplay, make sure she's relaxed and go very slowly.

Several women have even said that they prefer too small, because the man can then use fingers or oral to please her (many say that PIV never gets them to O anyway no matter the man's size)...and if the man's too small, the woman still feels good that PIV at least pleases HIM and doesn't hurt HER.

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Have the woman be on top. That way she can lean forward or back and control how deep you go.

I have hit my wife's cervix on occasion and when that happens, the fun is over for the day.

I usually have to use fingers for a while before she is ready for PIV.
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Have the woman be on top. That way she can lean forward or back and control how deep you go.

I have hit my wife's cervix on occasion and when that happens, the fun is over for the day.

I usually have to use fingers for a while before she is ready for PIV.
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My wife is 5"3 wiegha tuck over 110lbs and is a size 2, as I stated I m 7.25 from the base of the shaft at my pelivs and 5.25/5.5 in girth.
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