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post #1 of 87 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 10:10 AM Thread Starter
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Small issue it seems. Several women have had issue with my size. However, my member apparently has caused soreness in their vaginas as one even said it's hard to fit it in her mouth, thus no oral sex. I do not find that I am that big. Just for kicks, I did some measuring. It's a bit over 8 inches erect with a 6.4 circumference. Again, I do not find that I am that big. Each woman has said I've been their biggest. However, I find that hard to believe. Have others run in to this problem? How do they mitigate the situation?

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Re: Size issues

Its not talked about much but the bigger you are the more likely it is that a woman will find you too large for some sex acts to be comfortable / possible. With the size that you describe, you are way above average and while you may get bragging rights, a lot of women will not be able to engage in some sex acts with you.
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No, don't have that problem. Sadly.
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It looks average size to me. Not bragging, as when women see it, only a few, their eyes widen; and it seems not for a good reason. Lack of intimacy because of it's size. Never a good thing. No one likes to be a freak; despite what Pornhub shows.
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Its not talked about much but the bigger you are the more likely it is that a woman will find you too large for some sex acts to be comfortable / possible. With the size that you describe, you are way above average and while you may get bragging rights, a lot of women will not be able to engage in some sex acts with you.
Thanks. There's nothing I really can do. That's what I got.
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Re: Size issues

Easy solution. Go find a bigger woman... bigger mouth, bigger vah jay jay.
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Re: Size issues

I'm not sure about average circumference, but have read a post here regarding this, but average inch size is 4.5 - 5-ish inches erect, I believe, so that puts you well above average.

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It looks average size to me. Not bragging, as when women see it, only a few, their eyes widen; and it seems not for a good reason. Lack of intimacy because of it's size. Never a good thing. No one likes to be a freak; despite what Pornhub shows.
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Easy solution. Go find a bigger woman... bigger mouth, bigger vah jay jay.
I prefer petite fit women.
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post #10 of 87 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 10:52 AM
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I'm quite large too, but the women I've been with say they like the extra size and seem to thoroughly enjoy themselves. Remember, they can fit a baby out of there so a penis shouldn't be an issue. Just make sure they are properly turned on first (although that's true regardless of size). The only issue I've ever had was with a woman with vaginismus, but that isn't really a size issue.

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Yup.

A lesson for all the guys who are worrying that they are too small.....

It is possible to find size-compatible women - they aren't necessarily large in overall body size. OTOH that is a major constraint on which women you can date and not information that is easy to discover early.



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I prefer petite fit women.
with a penis that large, most of them will not be able to accommodate you. I had a friend growing up, about the same measurements as you, never could keep a girlfriend, they all said the same thing, sex hurt to much.

I am on the very edge of the top of the normal range 7.25 and 5.25 and my petite wife was at her comfort limit with my girth and require significant foreplay.

few suggestions, more foreplay, lube, and relaxation a tense women will have trouble.
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No, don't have that problem. Sadly.


Didn't know you swung both ways @blueinbr. So you've taken them that big?




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Could be stress at the thought leading to difficulties and tenseness. That size alone should work. The woman has to be relaxed and maybe manually dialate herself with 1 then 2 then maybe even 3 fingers. Once she has you can go slow at first


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never could keep a girlfriend, they all said the same thing, sex hurt to much.
Not sure what is worse, being to small to please a woman or to big.
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