Hold off the dinner and movie thing until the third or fourth date. Often on my 2nd or 3rd
"official" date (coffee meet n greet, not a real date), I have gathered what she enjoys doing
or would like to do sometime (a female will say she is interested in things the guy likes,
even if she has never done it or doesn't have any interest in). Make the date interesting...
I live at the foothills of a National Park. "I can't exactly tell you what we are doing but
dress very casual." But only do that, that early if you got a good feel about her.
One thing I have learned over the last couple years, females 32 and up.... will bring up the "dinner at home
and movie" after 2,3, or 4 dates. Mostly at their place. But in OPs case, would have to be
at his. First couple "home dates" OP cooks, usually the female will offer to then cook.
As Frus said.... you're the guy, nail down the next date eye to eye. Date doesn't have to be
"set in stone" but if it will be Saturday evening, lock that down immediately.