Re: Help with broken marriage
You need to take a breath and calm down. It's obvious you have anger issues and I could understand why she doesn't feel comfortable opening up to you.
You say she doesn't take responsibility, do you? What would she say the issues are if she were on here.
Sleep with your freakin wife. Get over the fact that she is mad at you and won't look at you. Your place is in bed next to her whether she is mad or not.
Here are my suggestions even though you probably won't take them: bite your tongue. Just be there with her. Sleep her with everyday. Don't force her to talk. Tensions are obviously too high right now that they won't end up well. Don't show that your mad. She doesn't trust you and she doesn't feel safe with you probably because you get angry and frustrated too easily and you leave her. Do that for a while, let her soften up. I am not saying be passive aggressive, I'm not saying give her the silent treatment. I'm just saying, be normal, non talkative, nice. If she wants to talk, she will come to you. Don't force a conversation on her. Her her come to you, while you continue to be nice, and sleep with her every night. Let her behavior roll of your shoulders. Don't get frustrated. She might try to get a rise out of you, don't let it.