Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: This should probably be a taboo subject
Guys are more preoccupied with penis size than women are. Not one of the 20 women I had sex with was willing to or mentioned previous lovers. That is an unspoken law. In this day and age it is surprising how many men still think that penis size equates to better sex or orgasms. It does not unless your sexual education is only porn. Once, one of my wife's friends mentioned a guy she had sex with that had a large penis. She said all he did was pound her with it, thinking that is all he had to do and she was sore the next few days. She even found that his penis bumping against her cervix was distracting. If you read true stories about guys with big penises, you will find that it presents problems for them. Some women will not let them have intercourse with them. Some girls feel pain. Life is not like porn.
Do men go around looking for women with tight vaginas because they are better at sex? Despite what many men say about big boobs, are only large chested girls capable of giving great orgasms? It is all BS. I am about your size and I have pleased many women who came back for more, including a few who never had an orgasm by intercourse before. A woman's vagina is only about 5-6" before you enter the cervix area which does not have as many nerve ending as their vagina. You can look at it two ways. Either your think you are too small or think that she is too stretched out. Why do men chose to believe that they are the problem?
The most recent study showed that when women were asked to select a 3D printed penis, they selected about 5-6". Previous studies were simply asking women if they prefered big or average sized penises. You would get the same results if you asked guys if they rather have a girl with small or large boobs. It has nothing to do with real life or sexual pleasure. A great orgasm is a great orgasm, no matter how it is achieved. I love oral sex. I give women their first orgasm orally. Then do intercourses and if they do not orgasm again before I do, I will perform oral on them again, even though my semen is still inside them. I study sex and learn all that I can about it. I have had sex with models and they all had good orgasms and wanted more. No one cares but you about penis size as long as you make them orgasm.
There are size queens out there who only like large penises but that is more of a visual turn on than physical, much like having sex with a woman with large breasts. My wife had no sex with anyone before me so she has no past. I have a long past but my wife does not want to hear about it. I cannot imagine a wife talking about an ex with a large penis since she should know that men are sensitive about their penis size. If you cannot please your wife as much as another man, it is not because of your penis size. I give my wife orgams in under 3 minutes, and multiple ones too. That is how it has been with most of my sexual partners with the exception of my ex fiancee who is now married to a woman so no mystery there. Stop worrying because your lack of confidence will translate to poor sexual performance.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.