Somehow the wife and I got onto the subject of her past boyfriends. Remember I am retroactively jealous and trying my best to get over this condition. And I'm thinking the more exposure I have to my wife's past the more desensitized I will become to it. So far it's working, we've talked about her previous relationships before and it used to bother me, but not so much now because I'm realizing I can trust her.
So for some reason I had to take it up a notch yesterday. I dunno why I did, but I did. I asked about who of the guys she ever dated had the biggest penis. We've discussed this in the past but I asked it again yesterday. She told me again it was a biker dude that she briefly dated way before I came along. She said the guy ought to be a porn Star. In the past she told me it was too uncomfortable because it was so big, but yesterday when I had mentioned that she had only had sex w him a couple of times because it was uncomfortable she admitted that it was more than twice and it actually felt good. She only told me it was uncomfortable in the past because I was too sensitive and took the discussion the wrong way. So yesterday I didn't show any emotion, it was just a matter of fact discussion. But I have to admit to still being very jealous and a bit hurt that she told me a lie in the past, even if it was to protect my feelings. I'm no slouch in the penis dept, I'm about 6.5 inches with a sizable girth. But I find myself feeling jealous of this other guy. I asked for specifics on her sexual experience with this guy but she refused to go any further and said she was afraid I would just use it against her in the future.
So ladies, is this a subject you've discussed with your husbands? If not, would you discuss it with your husband? Guys, have you ever had this discussion with your wife? If so, and you weren't the biggest, did it make you feel jealous?
I've had many conversations with Mrs. Conan about past sex partners but not because of RJ.
Some of our talks were to help her work through her emotions about things she wasn't proud of.
Other talks were for fun because I am very sexually confident and I think sex is both fun and humorous.
I have asked her about experiences she liked and why she liked them so I could maybe improve as her lover.
Just for data. Her first husband was hung like a horse. He was not a competent lover or a considerate husband or even a very smart guy.
She didn't enjoy sex that much with him. She liked it best with considerate lovers who took their time and worked her passion up with soft caresses.
I am easily her best lover if for no other reason than I made myself a student of her body and female sexuality.
Mrs. Conan can, and has, accommodated a very large penis. Much bigger than me. When I get her really aroused and hot, I can tell her kitty can take quite a bit more than I am pushing. Not length wise, I'm actually close to 8 in length and that can bother her cervix before she is really worked up but she could seriously handle more girth. I'm no slouch in that department either, 5.5, but she has never had a vaginal O anyway though she has come closest with me and it is my goal to eventually push her over that edge.
You simply need confidence partner. Sex is and is not serious.
If your wife feels safe and comfortable with you there is nothing she wont share with you and that will open up intimate pleasure centers in her mind.
You will also be able to bring her to higher heights during sex.
You have to look at her actions and trust her. Emotions are poor reasons for making decisions.
Your RJ should not be a basis for any action or decision about your wife.
Her actions should be your guide to trusting her with your intimacy and heart.
I actually get a laugh about some of our sexual history.
I love my wife and she is my friend so I wish she had been treated better by Mr. Huge penis and had a better sexual experience than she did.
Mrs. Conan chose me above all others easy.
Didn't your wife do the same with you?
I sincerely hope you can connect with your wife on this level.
She needs to feel safe with you brother.