The intimacy is almost non-existant now because I don't feel connected when being constantly criticized and disrespected. I am also pretty much exhausted most of the time since our little one was born...
When we first dated and got married, sex and intimacy was AMAZING.
I was waiting for you to drop the key.
We all have doors that hide things. Sometime it is only clutter behind the door.
I worked some doors in your house, using that key.
I found the hidden door that your husband hides things from you. Behind that door are feelings. He too is frustrated. And after 12 hours he is tired also.
You are tired. Babies on top of a busy work schedule can drag anyone down.
Your husband is horny. He wants sex....he needs sex. Men are simply built this way. Criticize him all you want, Nitpick at him. He won't like it but he will endure.
Cut him off from sex? Now, you have his attention. His undivided attention. He sees a wife that is tired and who has no time for him....for his bat and balls.
You want him to stop his nasty and snippy attitude. Play balls with him. He gets to use his bat in your green field.
Drain his snake. Keep it drained. He will snuggle right up to you.
It is so simple, yet so hard. Do not carry arguments into the bedroom. The bedroom is for sleeping and for fun....period.