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View Poll Results: Should You Have Free Access To Your SOs Email/Passwords/Phone/Social Media Accounts?
Yes, if there is nothing to hide it should not be a problem 25 73.53%
No, it ain't none of your dang business 1 2.94%
It depends on the circumstance (i.e. lying, infidelity) 7 20.59%
Yes, only if it will get me laid 1 2.94%
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post #31 of 35 (permalink) Old 03-08-2017, 11:48 AM
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If married I am for full access. If just dating, even if living together, then no.
See, if I was living with you, and asked you for the comfort of being allowed to access your phone and stuff, and you refused, you'd be leaving. Guess you'd need someone who has never been cheated on!


People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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Dating no, living together or married yes.

Its a loaded question though...in our case, I only have a passcode on my phone when we go out (it drives me nuts). Hubby has his on all the time, we both know what it is though. We know each others passwords and things but don't log in to snoop on each others things. My FB is logged in pretty much all the time, any time hubby likes he could log on but he doesn't. He must know that all he'd find is cute bunny, puppy and kitten photos! Rofl.
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See, if I was living with you, and asked you for the comfort of being allowed to access your phone and stuff, and you refused, you'd be leaving. Guess you'd need someone who has never been cheated on!
Wouldn't be leaving anywhere since it's my house but yes need a secure woman. Lucky for me I have one. And yes she was cheated on
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I hear ya on the TAM paranoia, got hit with a bit of it as well at times!

My W and I have never done anything to bring into question our loyalty to each other. If for whatever reason my W did ask, I would be willing to let her look through everything if that would help assuage (got this word from my "Word of the Day" toilet paper ) her concerns, but I would view it more as a one time thing and not unlimited open access.
WHERE did you get "word of the day" toilet paper??? H has a birthday coming up!
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I / we have always looked at this as more of a "willing" - "giving" thing...

We are more or less a couple who just OFFERS this information...it's like a "given"... this is just our way... it's always been our way.. to share everything, everything is joint..... I'd say we are both "open book" types - at least with each other.... if suddenly this would stop, on my end... he would feel it... he's never felt the need to get into any of the things I do online as I pretty much openly share ....if something is interesting.. I talk about it...we talk about it....Maybe a subject I am thinking of doing a thread on here, a post I read...who sent me a message today on FB, what is going on....

And he shares with me some things he reads on FB. what so & so is doing...

We have a family binder with all our our emails, FB, forums, every website, credit cards, all our usernames, passwords.. heck our 4th son was asking Dad what his password for his email was last night to get into his google images to show some pics of our back yard to a friend.... we just throw it out there...

We think nothing of it.. if this wasn't family though... Oh my NO !@#$
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