I am very worried, sad and troubled that I am here and actually made an account to post this in an effort to seek advice and wisdom from you guys. I have been dating my girlfriend that I love for 4 months now, (I am 20, she is 26) also we are on a long distance relationship and we met online) we sometimes have our argues but its pretty rare and they were always jealousy related from her and my side because we are both very jelly mostly but wich we resolved good everytime.
So here its where ill say whats going on right now, well as you guys can see as the tittle of my post, she is divorced and her husband is going to move on to her house.
Her ex had asked her 2 days ago if he could move in to her house if him and his gf broke up, because him and his girfriend were not doing good and they could break up soon.
I didnt like this at all, she told me she refused and was telling him to go with his parents, wich they argued (my gf and her ex) and then nothing got resolved and he left without word. (he works at the same place as her so he told her around their work) so I just showed i was not okay with it and left that topic there, since she told me she would tell me if anything more happened.
This is having me overthink very bad and pretty worried.. and well this is happening because her ex is still into her and I also just simply dont like the idea at all, he once said he wanted to fix things back and gave the idea he wouldnt mind leave his gf to do so (me and her were dating at that too), they argued at that time and she got hurt because he hurted her in the past a lot, wouldnt defend her of his parents, care about her feelings and other things, (wich made them to broke up) and she told me she trully loved me and wouldnt go back to him and I did my best to make her feel better and I managed to do it but yeah...
(his dad in the past tried to hurt her and managed to, while her ex didnt stoped him btw, what an*#, this got putted in court)
Now today this happened, she went to court because of what had happened with his dad in the past and well her ex's dad got pissed because he will most likely lose the case, he had treatned her in past that she would regret if she screwed him with this and now she was thinking he could break in her house to make her pay (hurt her) (he lives close and he broke in once before to take something) the thing is with all this she is afraid of being alone at her house now because of her ex's dad so.. she told me she will let her ex move in so his dad will probably not do a move (wich i dont think so since her ex is a coward and didnt defend her in the past when they were married so why would he now).
I asked if it really was necessary that he moved in.. and that her ex will most likely attempt to do something.. if u guys understand were im going with this... well I said I was not okay with it but if its for her safety... well her ex's dad could try to hurt her thats true but.. and i also said that when he moves in that i hoped it wouldnt change our relationship and what if he tried something what would she do and she said she would deny him and his flirts /excuses /sexual attempts, this doesnt make me feel confortable at all and I think she will get distant of me... not to mention that with him there listening to us skyping it will be unconfortable for both of me and her and probably he will try to make "moves" so they get back together wich could lead to her leaving me or cheating on me in the worst case scenerios... she told me she would never leave me and that she really loves me and wants to be with me forever and I know that she wont cheat on me but he could force himself kissing for example.. and then lead to that, idk what to do and say, im already getting hurt just of thinking him being there with her...
This is killing me thinking i could lose her
... I love her so much and I see a future with her and she is so special and I trully love her, we talk on me or her flying over to meet eachother in real in a close future and other things on our distant future too, I really need your advice and opinions
about on what's happening and why she wants him moving in and what you guys would do about it /what I should do about it
, Should I be Okay with her ex moving in?
and thanks for reading till the end. Please leave your opinions on this.