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post #1 of 12 (permalink) Old 03-08-2017, 11:42 AM Thread Starter
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Something amazing happened last night

My wife kept looking at me funny last night so I asked her what was on her mind. She said she was happy. I asked what about. She said "you". She then proceeded to tell me how much she appreciates me as a husband and feels like she doesn't deserve me. I reassured her that she does and that we are perfectly matched.

My love language is words of affirmation, so hearing her say these things was like listening to sweet music. It made me so happy! I wish I could keep this feeling I have now forever and the confidence I'm feeling now in my heart forever.

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Have you made that counseling appointment yet??

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Great!

Accept her words as the truth and as a sincere expression as to how she really feels about you and rest assured she loves you, and stop asking her how many of her exboyfriends had larger penises than you do.
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Great!

Accept her words as the truth and as a sincere expression as to how she really feels about you and rest assured she loves you, and stop asking her how many of her exboyfriends had larger penises than you do.
Lol will do!
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My wife kept looking at me funny last night so I asked her what was on her mind. She said she was happy. I asked what about. She said "you". She then proceeded to tell me how much she appreciates me as a husband and feels like she doesn't deserve me. I reassured her that she does and that we are perfectly matched.

My love language is words of affirmation, so hearing her say these things was like listening to sweet music. It made me so happy! I wish I could keep this feeling I have now forever and the confidence I'm feeling now in my heart forever.
You are easily pleased.
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This is true. I don't get words of affirmation from her much and she doesn't tell me how she's feeling all of the time. So last night was a rareity. But I see it this way - it's like Christmas. IT doesn't happen often and since it doesn't I appreciate it way more when it does happen.
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I wonder if she would say it more often if you weren't always begging her for validation.
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So have you made that counseling appointment yet?

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So have you made that counseling appointment yet?
Actually I did. Made it for April 3.
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Actually I did. Made it for April 3.
Awesome.


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Good for you!

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Aww, that's so sweet and charming!!!! Tonight, my husband did something similar. He took me in his arms and said, "I love you so much, and I'll always be here for you, no matter what weight you are." I'm currently struggling with a relapse back into my eating disorder, so those words are worth their weight in gold. I love him. ♡♡♡

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