Re: No need for physical contact?
Sounds to me like your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because she's not in love with you. How much time do you two spend together? Do you date her, talk to her, meet her other needs? Women usually need conversation and quality time with their spouse to feel like having sex. Men usually need sex and recreational companionship to feel like having conversation, showing interest, etc. Sounds like you work hard to provide for her. That's probably need number 1 for her. But maybe take a look at her other needs and talk to her- tell her you want to make her happy, ask what she needs. And let her know that you're unhappy because you need to have sex with her. Give it 3 weeks of need-meeting, and see if she's able to meet your needs. If not, let her know that this is not going to work for you. Ask her if it could be hormone related. If so, there are treatments she can look into, but let her know that it needs to be a priority for the sake of your marriage. Bio-identical hormones can greatly increase a woman's sex drive if it's related to menopause, and it could very well be the reason (unless you're not spending time dating her and just trying to get her to have sex with you).