It is really hard to get her attention anymore.
This is EXACTLY why you need to do something drastic. That is the ONLY way you will get her attention. Being 'nice' isn't going to cut it.
If you are not willing to blow things up, then we really can't help you here. If you're not willing to take the bull by the horns and do something that tells her in NO uncertain terms this is important to you, why would she ever think it IS important to you??
She's so consumed with her skincare "side business" that time doesn't even exist. We have a therapy session tonight. I'm trying to figure out how to say wtf?
Is there some reason that you can't just say exactly that? WHAT THE ****. Capitals and all. STOP being NICE and GET MAD here!! This is your marriage at stake - why are you willing to just meekly let it expire?????
You actually don't even belong in counseling, you know. With your attitude it's just a waste of time.
This really sucks, all day long I think about what the heck can fix our situation and get back to being happy with one another. When she initiates a conversation, I drop what I'm doing to give her my full attention but when I start a convo she hardly listens. So preoccupied with anything other then me. As far as importance goes, kids, bills, side business, but whoops, I didn't make the list.
And this doesn't piss you off???
There's only so many ways we can say it, you know. If you just keep ignoring the advice, and keep listing off all the stuff you pine for and how freaking NICE you are to her, we're just gonna give up and ignore you. JUST like she does.