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post #61 of 95 (permalink) Old 03-17-2017, 12:37 PM
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Re: No need for physical contact?

This dude isn't reading ANYTHING that's being posted or answering any of our questions. I'm still waiting to find out what this 'ring' is she has and why she has it if it's birth control and he's snipped


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This dude isn't reading ANYTHING that's being posted or answering any of our questions. I'm still waiting to find out what this 'ring' is she has and why she has it if it's birth control and he's snipped
Wedding ring. He's alluding to bait and switch.

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I am going to try again and see if it was just a fluke or what.
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It's a contraception ring that she has inserted. I mean yeah she could screw anyone without getting pregnant but I really doubt that's what she's up to.
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It's a contraception ring that she has inserted. I mean yeah she could screw anyone without getting pregnant but I really doubt that's what she's up to.
So why does she have contraception when you're snipped??????????????????????????????????????????? ??????????

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I am going to try again and see if it was just a fluke or what.
Try what???????

Your posts make ABSOLUTELY no sense.

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So why does she have contraception when you're snipped??????????????????????????????????????????? ??????????
Only one good reason for that...

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So why does she have contraception when you're snipped??????????????????????????????????????????? ??????????
I use Nuvaring. I would continue to use it even if my partner was snipped, and we were monogamous.

The answer is very simple. Getting my period SUCKS. I have a very flow which, if I am not on contraception, can last up to a week and a half with horrible cramps, and is very unpredictable. Some months it will start after four weeks, sometime six. Who knows? It's menstrual roulette.

But when I'm on contraception, my flow is much, much lighter and shorter with know cramps. I know exactly when I'm going to get it, and I can skip periods by taking it continuously. I can plan around things like beach vacations and other special occasions.

It makes perfect sense to me.

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I use Nuvaring. I would continue to use it even if my partner was snipped, and we were monogamous.

The answer is very simple. Getting my period SUCKS. I have a very flow which, if I am not on contraception, can last up to a week and a half with horrible cramps, and is very unpredictable. Some months it will start after four weeks, sometime six. Who knows? It's menstrual roulette.

But when I'm on contraception, my flow is much, much lighter and shorter with know cramps. I know exactly when I'm going to get it, and I can skip periods by taking it continuously. I can plan around things like beach vacations and other special occasions.

It makes perfect sense to me.
Ok, learned something. Thanks for info
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So why does she have contraception when you're snipped??????????????????????????????????????????? ??????????
I use Nuvaring. I would continue to use it even if my partner was snipped, and we were monogamous.

The answer is very simple. Getting my period SUCKS. I have a very flow which, if I am not on contraception, can last up to a week and a half with horrible cramps, and is very unpredictable. Some months it will start after four weeks, sometime six. Who knows? It's menstrual roulette.

But when I'm on contraception, my flow is much, much lighter and shorter with know cramps. I know exactly when I'm going to get it, and I can skip periods by taking it continuously. I can plan around things like beach vacations and other special occasions.

It makes perfect sense to me.
My wife is on the Nuvaring and says it really help regulate her period. I think she might also be somewhat afraid of my proceedure not completely cutting off the sperm. We did suffer through 3 miscarriages before our first born. And 1 after.

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The other thing about NuvaRing that is better than the pill is that you don't have to worry about taking a pill every day at the same time. Just change out the ring once a month.

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Well. it seems as if we've reached the end of the road. I'm not stupid but I guess a was hopeful things would be able to be resolved by putting in the extra effort but it makes no difference what I do or say. We sat down and talked about how I really want to feel good with each other and how life is crappy sometimes but our bond makes it worth while. But the feelings aren't mutual, I am disposable. She can find 1,000 guys tomorrow and I will be left to my own isolation. I don't know what to do. I'm scared ****less about "quitting" on my kids. My twins are only 4 and my daughter is just 7 (I just took her to our first ever daddy/daughter dance). I can't live with this turmoil. I am seriously ****ed up about this.
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So does that mean she is unwilling to make any effort? She wants to end the marriage?

Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

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So does that mean she is unwilling to make any effort? She wants to end the marriage?
It really does seem that way. She isn't doing or trying to improve the relationship. I have improved my behavior, compliments, asking to help, trying to woo her with breakfast in bed and taking the kids out, etc... I pay her compliments and show enthusiasm with her accomplishments. I tell her, come on babe let's have some fun while we can, we are both 40, I'm Type 1 diabetic and don't have ED, yet. I seriously wish my sex drive would just go way. I mean wtf?
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