No need for physical contact?
My wife has made it clear that she doesn't need or want sex anymore. Not even physical touch, I don't understand it. I'm very giving and patient, soft, gentle, firm whatever...but she can't even tell me what feels good and she literally just lays there without a moan or word. We've been married 18 years and the last 4 have been awful in the bedroom. I'm feeling such a heavy depression because I feel like the ugliest guy in the world. We split up house work, both have good jobs, a house and wonderful children. I've told her so many times how I feel, even come right out and have said "I need you, today, maybe tonight after kids go to bed"? She always seems to dodge me. Everyone says affair but I really have no way of knowing. I don't know what the hell to do.