My vote is the guy is a loser who you never should have wasted your time on in the first place. You wasted 3 years working your fingers to the bone to provide this jailbird with a place to live after he was sprung - and the ungrateful asshat apparently thought he was above working for a living like you, and sat around all day until you lost that home and had to live with relatives for the next few years.
That ALONE tells you how he lacks character and integrity.
Your poll is ridiculous because you didn't DO anything. Dealing with the mental cripple you chose to marry is your real
problem, not defending yourself against trumped up lunacy from your husband.. He's a liar (big surprise there
) and a manipulator who continually accuses YOU of cheating because he's
doing it. Cheaters very often accuse their betrayed spouses of doing exactly what they're doing - cheating. He's just another paranoid cheater looking to throw all the blame onto you and make you the bad guy.
So I see this friend and he has a mess of hair on his face and I jokingly grab his beard and make a pirate joke. My husband storms off practically leaving me and accuses me of being a thot ( *****). we got in to a huge fight and he brought up the other thing again as well saying I was a no good ***** and he was leaving me
I don't know what a 'thot' is, but your husband is not sound mentally. He's not
. Normal people do NOT act like this.
The next time the assclown threatens to leave you, open the door wide for him. Stop begging this lunatic to treat you right. He's incapable of doing that.