I am married twice . From my first wife , I have a kid . My first wife is very good by nature.after 7 years of happy marriage , I came in connection with a girl 15 years younger to me through Facebook and dont know when this friendship turns into love.She was a flirt at start and was faking that she love me but later she also fell in love to me. She later came to know I am already married and then she asked me to divorce and marry her.My first wife cooperated me and let me go. We divorced and I married my present wife .
My present wife love me . But my family including my mother , brother and sisters family are strongly connected to my first wife and my kid and haven't accepted my present wife. My wife's nature is over possessive and over jealous. She want me not to have any connection with my ex wife or anyone who have any connection with my ex wife.. Now it's very difficult for me as whole my family is strongly connected and even if I talks to my mother or my kid , my wife always have suspicion that they want that I go back to my first wife although it's not so. My wife has asked me to pledge never to meety ex and also never to meet my mother or anyone in my family without her accompanying me. But noone from my family want to meet her as she is very abusive and Ill behaving to them.She is abusive and have abused everyone in my family whenever she gets to know I have met anyone of them . So my mother , sister and all are gone distant from me as they want that we stay in peace.But still if ever my mother or anyone meets me , they do so without my wife's knowledge because they are scared of her as she is very short temper , Ill behaving and abusive.
Everytime she comes to know I have met anyone, she fights and beats me and I end-up beating her to stop her beating me. And after that she start saying she will have extra merital affair and start asking me to pledge this and that and never stops until I agreed to whatever are her demands though I knew it would not be possible for me to never talk to my mother and my daughter from my first wife.I have this guilty also that I left them and also feel responsibility towards them too.
My ex wife and my relation are like friends only now.
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Last edited by shaleen; 03-12-2017 at 01:51 PM.