Re: Struggling man looking for advice
Thank you everyone for your input. I have not brought up anything to her about sex and I have just been there for her. I told her that I don't want to discuss sex at all until she is ready to. I told her that I am here for her if she wants to discuss how she is feeling about all of this. I also apologized for being so self centered and selfish about this. I have to be honest though its killing me seeing her upset all the time and not being able to do anything about it. When I ask her if she wants to talk about how she feels she just says nothing has changed, in other words, she is still unhappy. She really seems like she does not want to discuss it at all. Do you think me just being there and saying nothing is helping her? How long do you think I should let this go on this way it before I recommend we talk to someone together to start moving in a positive direction? Sometimes it seems like I'm living the definition of insanity but that may just be my impatience creeping in.