Re: advice on seperated wife
I didn't have time to read the replies you got, but wanted to leave a comment.
Where she is at was where I ended up with my exhusband. I had given him YEARS of chances to work on the marriage. He would do better for a couple of weeks, and everything would revert back to awful. He never believed I would leave. He was wrong. Once I filed and left he was shocked and willing to do anything to keep me. It was too late. Just like it is for you.
Lesson for men to learn - LISTEN when she tells you she is unhappy, and if you want to keep her, make the adjustments.