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post #31 of 33 (permalink) Old 03-15-2017, 04:56 PM
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Re: My wife watches lesbian porn and it's freaking me out

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I don't think we're saying "lesbian porn is okay and gay men porn is not okay," but rather "Just because she watches woman-on-woman porn doesn't mean she's gay or even bi!"



Look, sex is supposed to be one spouse taking the time and energy to be interested in the sexual pleasure of their partner--and the other spouse putting in similar levels of interest and enthusiasm to the sexual pleasure of their partner. It's not only "Let's get this over with." And thus, if your motivation is self-centered (I'm horny...I want to get myself off) you are coming at it backwards. The whole idea is to share so much of yourself and your thoughts and your feelings with another person, that you want to also physically express how close you feel to them.



But what you find arousing, stimulating, and sexy differs from person to person.



My guess is that the OP's spouse is just a softer or more romantic person rather than someone who likes rough sexy, quickies, or a bunch of sucking and spitting. Okay--that's her thing. It doesn't mean she wants to engage sexually OR romantically with other woman. She just sees the gentler "making love" as more her thing that "Hey baby want to screw?"


I understand that we are all different and what I like, my spouse may not like. For me I guess because I am against homosexuality, I can't stand the though of watching lesbian porn (or any porn at all) or having husband watch gay porn. Any kind of porn is disgusting but those are my beliefs.


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