12-30-2011, 10:19 AM
Join Date: May 2011
Location: In Love
| | Re: How do i make this guy stay away from my wife???
He has every right and responsibility to run this creep off. So I am saying I fall into the both camp on this. Meaning, he should talk to his wife about this, let her know his expectations for her behavior as it concerns this guy AND at the next opportunity tell the guy calmly but firmly to get lost and that he does not want him around his family ever again.
She should not answer the door to this guy. If she has not already the next time he initiates with her she should tell him to go away, never bother her again and that she is telling her husband about his actions. To be clear that she is not threatening him with next time she will tell her husband but that she will be telling her husband right now. Like calling him on the cell and letting him know that this guy is actively bothering her. They can also complain to the managemnet of the rental properties to get this on record.
If the guy persists and comes knocking on the door she should call the police. When they arrive she should say that this guy is bothering her and that she has told him to go away. The police will escort him away. If he continues to be creepy then this escalates to the next level. This guys will not take subtle hints. It takes both the wife and husband to support each other. The predators job is to cause a rift between them.