Re: Husband's double dates
Call me Crazy but yes, I think a married man going out on more dates with his girl friend than his wife is a little out of bounds, but then again I think a married man going out on dates with anyone other than his wife is wrong.
What baffles me is how it is that you didn't put a stop to this a long time ago, as another poster said it is about respecting your marriage through the proper observance of boundaries and that is not being done on either side right now. you are not enforcing boundaries and thereby enabling his behavior and he is not respecting boundaries and walking all over you.
For me it would simply be a choice, if you are going to date other women than I am going to date other men, I'll let you know when the divorce papers show up so you can sign them and we can move on.
Quite frankly I would make a point of making a date with a good looking single man and let him wine you and dine you every night that your husband goes out on his double date lets see if he is ok with the shoe on the other foot.
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