Re: Husband's double dates
I don't want him to lose his friends. I don't have a problem with them being friends, he has other women friends that i have no issue with because i am always part of the mix. There's one woman in the mix that i think is the real issue, i think she may have had or has a thing for my husband. I would like to go, and i look at it this way- if they don't want me there, and aren't enjoying it because i'm there, they'll stop doing these dinners and then problem solved for me either way. Even though i know they probably don't want me there, if that's how they feel then i don't feel bad ruining it for them. Cause what they're doing is wrong if they don't respect me or my marriage. It's hard cause i really don't know who is the one really pushing the just the 4 of us thing, i really don't think it's coming from my husband, i think he's going along with them. Because this isn't an issue with any one else in our lives. I think 1 or 2 of them came up with this "just us" thing and he won't say she comes or we don't do this anymore. No skin off my nose if they don't go out anymore because of me. I'm not saying they can't be friends, i'm just saying you can't go out with my husband. Two very different things!