... and what's even worse, @AtMyEnd ~ is that even though these texts were effectively caught in time, the implicit aura of trust between the two of you will never ever quite be the same again, with you constantly looking over your shoulder from here on out!
That's been the hardest part about all this so far, the feeling that I don't trust her like I used to. Things have gotten better over the last month, from what I can see she hasn't had any further contact with him, and her whereabouts and who she's with when she goes out is always confirmed. There have been a few little things that have happened, like she's testing me and trying to get me to admit that I'm spying on her and watching her every move, but I haven't admitted to anything and the things she's accused me of doing I've actually been able to prove her wrong, even though she still says she doesn't believe I'm not spying on her.
The strangest thing about how I've been feeling though, is I recently dug up and learned a lot more about the man who texted her. I found out his last name, address, what school he teaches at, that he recently got married 2 years ago, his wife's name, his wife's Facebook and Twitter account information and even the odd coincidence that his wife is the sister of an old friend of mine from high school, lol.
Now being that all I ever saw was the one text from him and that there's nothing I've found that says there ever was anything more than that, I don't feel I should contact his wife over the one text. But it is comforting to know that I have all this information, and if I ever find anything else to prove something did in fact happen or if he sends another text like he sent, I can make his world imploded within a matter of minutes with just a few emails to his wife, the school board, the PTA and Facebook posts to his wife's account, the school districts page, the parents association page, and wherever else I can think of, lol.
I have settled down emotionally since all this happened and I don't feel it's right to ruin his life and in turn piss my wife off that I did and make my relationship bad again all over one text that he sent. But yes, if it happens again or if I uncover other information it's open season on making his life a living hell, lol