Let's say that the following hypothetically unfolded:
Husband and Wife enjoy jumping out and scaring one another at random times. Husband jumps out and scares wife, who proceeds to be very scared and shouts, F*** YOU, F*** YOU, F*** You for the next few minutes. Then wife goes into silent mode for the next day. Husband tries to conform wife, tell her he loves her, but is only met with silence.
Wife sleeps in different room that night and then accuses husband over text of cheating on her. Send some random photo from LinkedIn of a girl to husband on his 1000+ connections. Husband is speechless and tells wife there's nobody but her he wants in his life.
Next day at night, Husband tries to talk to wife, but wife ignores him and puts her earbuds in while he is talking. Husband then says, "Stop acting like a spoiled rotten brat!" unplugs ear buds from phone and asks if they can talk. Wife puts ear buds back in and says wife doesn’t need Husband for anything. Husband walks away and says, stop acting like a B****. Wife proceeds to take ring off and throw it at him, and tell him she wants divorce. Wife blocks Husband on FB messenger.
Husband wasn't angry... just frustrated that Wife wouldn't talk to him and disrespect him with putting ear buds in and turning on music to block him out.
Obviously husband shouldn't call names... but should he apologize?
Mind you, this is strictly a hypothetical situation