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I don't know. Not knowing might be my answer. I don't jump to "no, I'm not". But I also don't want to run off and marry him tomorrow. I want to work on it and get our relationship back to where it was... he doesn't seem willing to do that. He also won't talk about it or say how he feels.
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I don't know. Not knowing might be my answer. I don't jump to "no, I'm not". But I also don't want to run off and marry him tomorrow. I want to work on it and get our relationship back to where it was... he doesn't seem willing to do that. He also won't talk about it or say how he feels.
I just don't know how you can work on something with someone that isn't even willing to discuss your relationship.

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I just don't know how you can work on something with someone that isn't even willing to discuss your relationship.
I wish there was something that I could do to make him want to try, or to see how I'm feeling. When I try to talk to him about it he dismisses my feelings or just doesn't get it.

I went deeper into his internet history on his phone, back a few months. He works a nightshift 3 nights a week and basically just sits in his car unless someone needs him. The only time he seems to be watching porn is at work, which seems weird to do that at work. When I went further into his internet history I'd say about half of the videos were of "pegging". Which he has never expressed any interest in (and it weirds me out TBH). One night he looked at A LOT of ads on Craigslist sex section. w4m and wm4m. He could just be bored... But there is nothing leading up to those pages, no search engine pages. Just random sites that he frequents like sports crap, reddit. Then porn. Which makes me think he's doing a lot of incognito browsing and forgets to open incognito sometimes.

Do I have reason to be concerned? Or am I just suppose to give up and walk away...
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