Re: Husbands told to sleep on the couch
I think a gentleman will go to the couch if his wife asks him to.
Refusing, or telling her to sleep on the couch, is a real sign of boorishness, imo.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man