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post #31 of 33 (permalink) Old 04-04-2017, 07:57 AM
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Re: I made a mistake

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I know if it were me, I'd be shocked that he actually got off his lazy worthless ass and did anything at ALL considering he feels entitled to dump all the domestic chores on the OP's shoulders while he sits on his dead ass playing his childish games hour after hour after hour after hour ....

So, I'd have to be shocked that he actually got off his lazy ass.

That's what I would think.
Quit mincing words and tell us what you really think.

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Totally no fair to argue a point, then claim threadjack if he makes a response.
Either way,
The OP confessed. That's a big factor in my believing or not believing her. Do I wonder if there was sex? Yes. Do I believe her? I want to.

Something I see important. His gaming is addiction. My TAM comments are an addiction to me.
One I'll probably get help with pretty quick, lol.

I really think OP needs to discuss the gaming with her husband and try to realize that he doesn't want to stop gaming and likely won't. But they might find a way to get the sex going where he will want that more than the games.
I'm definitely seeing a pattern on here about those games. They are highly addictive!
Seems like the pattern is either porn, or games.
Either seem to be causing marital problems.

My suggestion is to get your husband to figure out he has a gaming addiction and it's affecting his marriage.
Apparently not even a cheating wife can get his attn off the games. He's hard core!
This is a good post.

A lot of truth here.

Addictions are measureless and diverse. To each, his own bag of chains and nooses.

When young, mine was being in "Perpetual Motion". Running, biking, swimming. Bedroom activities.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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Alcohol is not a monkey on your back.

It is a leach. At first. It sips just a bit of your blood.

Then it burrows into your skin.....swims upstream to your brain and takes the rudder.

It steers your "ship of state" onto the rocks.....it holes your bow, and your future....to the bottom you go.

All is lost.

I come from a family of alcoholics....both sides of the family.

I was the only one that made it out alive. Ran, swam and biked away from madness!

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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