12-30-2011, 06:46 AM
Join Date: May 2011
| | Re: sexting?
Should you believe he's ended it???? Absolutely not!!!! If it was with only one woman for the whole time I'll virtually guarantee that it was a full blown EA and in that case there's no way it's over that easy. I had an EA that was all texting, Facebook and phone calls - you can't just turn them off like a light switch. It's painful, bloody, and damned hard to end an EA - even when you want to.
How do you deal with the fact that he did it? First you have to get a better idea of exactly what he did. Unfortunately this usually involves the loyal spouse becoming a shade tree detective and spying on their wayward spouse. Second you need to tell him it is wrong, it violates your wedding vows and that you cannot accept it in your marriage. He must pick, you and the marriage or his relationship with this OW.
Get yourself over to the infidelity section and get educated on what to do. You have no time to lose, every text between him and this OW gets him in deeper and makes it that much harder to kill the EA (if that's what you're dealing with). He's going to put up a fight, he's going to resent you for denying him his other love interest. Too bad for him, but be prepared.
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