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He said its ok to hit women and flirt with other people?

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My husband is a very sweet person, he does everything for me, he is not violent and he's great! We have been married for one year and together for three.
But yesterday we were talking and he said he thinks flirting with other woman or a wife flirting with guys is not cheating. I said how come? And he said that it is normal and people like to feel appreciated. So I said why would you ever want to feel appreciated by someone who's not your wife?!?! And he said that he knows that when I dress up I like that the guys check out on me. I actually don't mind if a guy is checking out on me (not in a creepy way), but this is NOT flirting.

Then we were talking about something else and he said that there's a situation were man can hit woman. I was completely in shock! I asked what situation? And he said if the woman is threading a man's life or if she hits the man first it's ok for the man to push the woman away or slap back.
I told him that if a woman hits a man first, the man should just leave and not hit back. Real man don't hit back!

I am scared with this statements! Our marriage is great and we don't have issues at all, we get along, we are happy and our life is perfect, but after all what I heard i am starting to regret to have married him. I think I am married to an ******* now and I can't believe all these words came from him.

am I overreacting or what?! What do you all think? :(
 
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