Re: New Guy from UK... Hi all
I don't wish to lead anyone up the wrong path. We do have sex, we have sex in the same position and I'm not allowed to do anything new or different and the sex in my eyes is to produce a baby. So I want to re iterate it's not that we don't have sex, it's just it's for a purpose if that makes sense... she's never mentioned sex out side of actually doing it and will not discuss it or allow me to talk about it. I asked her last night if she has any fantasies and she said no she does everything she wants to do... she asked me and said not fantasys but I would love to maybe use my fingers, or perform oral on you or maybe have sex outside of the bedroom and she just said no I don't want to you should respect i don't want to if you love me...
She's right, I should accept her !!
Unfortunately we are already married :/ which makes things harder
I nearly broke up with her or tried seperation because the nights make me so sad, and I just yearn for some company ... she is like a kid to talk to when it comes to adult conversation and I long to be able to talk about sex to a member of the opposite sex and laugh about it or share fantasies or things we would like to do and actually do them