Originally Posted by Blokeymcblokeface View Post
Please share your suggestions, I may cringe or may not be ready but I need to hear them
I'll check out the book too
There is no hard and fast rule for successful relationships.
No cookie cutter or assembly line model.
For this relationship to be successful, as in satisfying for you both, you would need to transform into a very strong and authorative figure.
You would need to become a sort of benevolent dictator /tyrant /mentor to her.
It would require great fortitude from you to encourage /push her to grow as an individual and your mate.
You would need to become carefully dominant.
Becoming that kind of man is probably beyond what you are willing or capable of and should only be considered if you desperately love and cherish her.
I am somewhat like the character I described and am able to function in a relationship like that.
Mrs. Conan has come a long way but it has been a lot of work and she has had to do some teaching and mentoring of me as well.
I still don't believe you have a good match with her and unless she sees it and adopts heartfelt change, you should vamoose.