Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: New Guy from UK... Hi all
Blokey, you are both so young, these should be the best days of your lives sexually!
1. how was she before you got married? Did you have sex or was it the same?
2. You are a perfectly young healthy male who wants to be intimate with his young wife, nothing wrong at all
3. Your wife sounds really conservative, and things sex is an ugly process, she definitely has some problems. Was she brought up in a strict religious family or school or maybe she's a victim of CSA?
4. You need to take a break after sitting her down and telling her your needs. I would suggest she read His Needs Her Needs to see the needs of a healthy man in a marriage.
5. When you say sexual fantasies, I am wondering have you scared her by forcing her to do anything? You can be open here.
6. On the face of it , the other posters are right, you are not compatible, but is she has a problems due to issues in her past, maybe it is something that can be got past
Dont let her manipulate you into having kids, you need to resolve the intimacy issues first.