Re: Which comes first marriage or children?
For us, we don't really separate marriage and kids. Kids are the product of our marriage. Like some said, the priority depends on the stage of each family. For instance, for couples with young children children should come first (of course should make way for couple time) if your toddler or infant in sick you wouldn't want to go for a cinema with your spouse. For those with older children, you shouldn't neglect your spouse and spend all your time with your kids. Its not about who come first its about striking a balance until our kids are independent. Both couples and children need time away from each other to have a healthy marriage and family. Its just my opinion.