Re: Considering breaking off engagment and relationship with my fiancee
Kudos to you for good judgement and to your fiancée for being understanding.
Consider a different hobby.
I seriously understand how you feel. I had a street bike once. Loved riding it. Have wanted another one for years.
I'm 44. You have NO IDEA how many people I've known that have been killed on a bike in that many years.
It sounds to me that you are a man that can listen to advice.
One that can avoid big mistakes instead of learning by experience.
Marry the girl. I really think you may have a good one. They're a lot rarer than you think.
Really happy for you!
Hey, you can. Always go back to riding your bike. I've thought about a trail bike, but guess what? With three kids--- who would I ride with and when would I have the time? You gotta learn to enjoy your new wife, and new baby, and learn to live doing things with THEM.
Or your marriage will sour.
I learned that from experience. I wasn't as smart as you.