Re: Telling People To Quit Their Jobs
what is more important -marriage or career? Because really, we all could (mostly) earn a living working anywhere.
I had an affair with a co-worker. He quit 6 weeks later - or my husband ran him out of town or something. Thank god because I couldn't stand seeing him and it aggravated husband to no end. I could have GLADLY quit - I OFFERED to quit. But it worked out that he did.
Husband had affairs with two women in the business world in this town. One, I think, works elsewhere. The other works 100 yards away from hubby. He's supposed to tell me if he sees her. I guess he hasn't OR, he's afraid to tell me. If he's lying I feel sorry for him that he must lie to stay married but that's his deal. If I find out he's been lying I'm done. I don't like (in fact I HATE) that one of them lives here.
Speaking of Harley - I emailed him and my question about living here was read on his radio show (they sent me a book too!). Harley said to move, that the triggers are not something I should have to deal with. When hubby said that talking about the affairs emptied his love bank I said really? Do you really want to do everything Harley says in His Needs Her Needs? Because if that's the case then we should move, according to Harley. That shut him up.
It's only by the Grace of God, my benevolent Mercy, his big **** and the money he makes that keep me here. Oh, and the family and love thing too. But if he actually worked with her? Done. Or multiple choice A)me. B)your stupid career. Your choice honey..