Like I said @Hope1964
, people will take out of it what they will. If you don't agree with me, it's okay, really. See your post entitled "HOLY effing PC police" where many people, including me, don't agree with you. You aren't eager to change your opinion there, and it's okay. Even though we live in the same province, I don't know you, and don't need you to agree with me.
I'm not going to change my opinion for you, nor am I going to stop posting where I like. This is a public forum, and people are free to voice themselves if they feel they have something to add, or they feel they would like to post.
Telling people what I would do is irrelevant if you would like to think of it that way, yes. To me though, no, it's not irrelevant. And yes, I do know what I would do in a situation like that because I know myself quite well in fact.
And us arguing about what's right and what's wrong isn't getting us anywhere, nor is it helping the OP, so let's just agree to disagree here. Have a good day!
What you don't realize, because you've never been cheated on, is that BS's are EXTREMELY vulnerable when they've just found out they've been cheated on. You also don't realize that pretty much everything that people instinctively want to do when they find out they've been cheated on will not get them the result they really want.
So not only is telling people what you would do irrelevant because you have no idea what you'd do, but it can also lead BS's down the wrong road with disastrous results for them. Sure the OP can take away what they want - that's exactly why I make it a point to call people out who really have no business posting on BS's threads.