katina

my husband & I have been married 4 yrs. A yr ago my husband was working for my parents & my mother caught him & their secretary in the corner of the office he swears nothing happened then she yells sexual harrasmnet then 3 more women come forward & said the same thing I took his side then i discovered a myspace he had hidden for3 yrs I never knew he had one his picture was on it and he was talking to other women I started looking for more evidence & he took his laptop out of the house I got told several different lies about why he had a myspace then he said his sister set it up we have 3 teenagers between us and he acted as if he did not know how to log on he was married before & cheated we have been to 3 counselors he claims hes innocent help me

Blanca

From what you have written it sounds to me like something is going on. My H lied to me a lot in the beginning of our relationship. i became obsessed with knowing everything. But now, i dont need to know the details. all i need to know is if i like the way i feel around him, the way he's treating me, etc. If i dont then i will emotionally and physically distance myself from him until he will talk to me. i keep my distance until i feel he's treating me in a way that deserves my trust.

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