01-20-2009, 04:00 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Re: husband cheating or not
From what you have written it sounds to me like something is going on. My H lied to me a lot in the beginning of our relationship. i became obsessed with knowing everything. But now, i dont need to know the details. all i need to know is if i like the way i feel around him, the way he's treating me, etc. If i dont then i will emotionally and physically distance myself from him until he will talk to me. i keep my distance until i feel he's treating me in a way that deserves my trust.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie