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post #1 of 12 (permalink) Old 04-05-2017, 09:06 PM Thread Starter
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Two unnecessary lies and she knows that I despise Liars

So I have been married only for 6 months, finally fell in love for the first time in my life. Thinking that this woman I married was on the up and up. Never having any reason to believe that she had been lying to me about sleeping with someone, but she had and I forgave her right off the back. Then 3 months later I finds out that she had been having inappropriate conversations with a female that she could have been with 2 years ago. So for 300 days they been doing this. When I asked her why she stated that it had never stopped taking the way that they use to. I'm very hurt by this again. Just needed to talk to y'all

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Get an annulment.
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That would be the easiest way, but she has made it so that I will be left without a vehicle because she has bought me a new car and I've given my car to my sister. And where I live you can't get far without a car.
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Ok, good luck trying to live with a serial cheater. They never stop. So you'll need to get used to her cheating ways.
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i do have faith that the Lord will pull me through. Thanks for the feedback
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So you're basing your decision to stay with her on access to a vehicle?

Not a very good reason to stay, I'm afraid.

Ditch the liar and buy an old clunker to get around in.

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That would be the easiest way, but she has made it so that I will be left without a vehicle because she has bought me a new car and I've given my car to my sister. And where I live you can't get far without a car.
If the new car is registered in your name then she can't take it back.
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i do have faith that the Lord will pull me through. Thanks for the feedback
Maybe the Lord is using Marc878 right now to tell you to get out before you're destroyed. You are not listening because you are expecting a bolt of lightning. Get out now, use Uber until you can get a car. Liars lie that's what they do.
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Re: Two unnecessary lies and she knows that I despise Liars

Everyone lies. I learned that the hard way in life. You either get used to it or never love. Women, like men are going to be attracted to others. If you agreed on monogamy, that is a problem. People tend to behave like they have in the past. Every women I knew who cheated never stopped as they promised. They just got better at hiding it.

If I were you, I would not let a car be the reason I stay married. Then again, if you cannot afford to buy a used car or lease one, a divorce will be too expensive for you. This is the problem when either spouse is dependant on the others income to live. It keeps many couples together that are not happy. Good luck.

Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.
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You're staying with cheater because of a freaking car? I get it, been in your shoes. Felt trapped because I was married and didn't want to disappoint my parents with a divorce. Then bought a house and felt really trapped. So had two kids since I was trapped anyways. Finally got fed up with my sham of a marriage and divorced. Don't be like me.

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It's more than that I have never been in love and I take marriage serious But I know it's wrong for her
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