Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Two unnecessary lies and she knows that I despise Liars
Everyone lies. I learned that the hard way in life. You either get used to it or never love. Women, like men are going to be attracted to others. If you agreed on monogamy, that is a problem. People tend to behave like they have in the past. Every women I knew who cheated never stopped as they promised. They just got better at hiding it.
If I were you, I would not let a car be the reason I stay married. Then again, if you cannot afford to buy a used car or lease one, a divorce will be too expensive for you. This is the problem when either spouse is dependant on the others income to live. It keeps many couples together that are not happy. Good luck.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.