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post #16 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 11:57 AM
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It really doesn't! I think its only men who get hung up on that. Most women don't care, its what you do with it that matters.

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Of course it matters.

"I never thought size mattered until I was with someone with a HUGE penis and having sex became unbearable. Since then I've felt that size really makes a difference."

"For me, it definitely matters. I've found that I much prefer larger guys"

"Matters. Not too small or not too big ― kind of like a perfect scoop of Hagen Daz ice cream.Too small-still hungry, too big-tummy ache."

"It depends on what the person is looking for. Looking for fun? GO BIG! Looking for love then COMPROMISE!"

"Sorry to anyone who wants to believe otherwise but, yes, size does matter. A small penis can't create the same sensation that a larger one can,"

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I don't know what she thinks if it's to big or to small.
Sure you do.
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I asked her many times and she always starts looking a bit ashamed so I don't know what she thinks if it's to big or to small.
Seriously?

I assume you have looked closely at it yourself.

Depending upon the country you live in (born in or family religion) there should be percentage of men circumcised information you could Google. Similarly, there are statistics for penis size so you can figure where on the "bell-shaped curve you fall. Then you can look at it and see if it has stranger color combinations or unusual curvature.

So if you don't know, you should be able to guess at the likely reason, unless you are in self-denial.

Then armed with that, you should sit your GF down (not in the bedroom) and ask her if what you suspect is the reason is indeed the reason. I assume you know the difference.

See what she says, it might be totally something else, but then you will know. If she can't explain it to you, then explain to her, that while you would like to take your relationship to a closer more intimate level, you can't see that happening unless she can accept you and all your body parts as they are.

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P.S. I am wondering if there might be a troll having some fun with us, but will play it serious for a while.

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post #20 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 12:48 PM
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dump her and move on. No point dealing with that crap. Who cares what she actually means.
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post #21 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 12:52 PM
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Have you ever had any type of sex with her over the last 2 months, oral, masturbated each other, anything?
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Time for a little "Come to Jesus Meeting" and make her dispel specifics!

And if, for some reason she cannot, then it's time for you to up and move on! You absolutely do not deserve to be treated by her that way!

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Of course it matters.

"I never thought size mattered until I was with someone with a HUGE penis and having sex became unbearable. Since then I've felt that size really makes a difference."

"For me, it definitely matters. I've found that I much prefer larger guys"

"Matters. Not too small or not too big ― kind of like a perfect scoop of Hagen Daz ice cream.Too small-still hungry, too big-tummy ache."

"It depends on what the person is looking for. Looking for fun? GO BIG! Looking for love then COMPROMISE!"

"Sorry to anyone who wants to believe otherwise but, yes, size does matter. A small penis can't create the same sensation that a larger one can,"
What this omits is that women also come in different sizes. What might be a too big or too small penis for one woman could be just right for another. So don't be hard on yourself if one woman dislikes your penis. Just keep trying different ones on for size!

As for the poster at hand, if you can't talk to your girlfriend openly about sex, you two shouldn't be trying to have any. If she can't explain what she means about your penis, she's not ready for a sexual relationship. Or, if you're afraid to ask her, same goes for you.
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I'm 24 years old and I think Iam in the wrong chat for this but I give it a try. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend since 2 months and she never wants to have sex with me. I don't know what to do, everytime I ask her why she tells me "because of your penis" how to interpret that? Thanks
I guess she doesn't like penises. Have it removed and then approach her again to see if my guess was right.
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I guess she doesn't like penises. Have it removed and then approach her again to see if my guess was right.
What if you're wrong?

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What if you're wrong?
Then I will have an answer for my wife when she asks "Did you learn anything new today?"
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I guess that's something then.
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I guess everyone is being polite. I'm gonna ask it. How long and thick are you, OP? You're anonymous so it won't matter if you say. You don't have too though. I heard 5-6" is the average size from a Times article I think.

Even if I don't get likes for it, I'm still going to say it.
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post #29 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 02:39 PM
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Since I have answered the OP's question once already on another part of this forum, I will refer him to that post of mine.

For others that want to see all the other comments made to the same question it can be found over here.

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OP, you really should only post the same question on one part of the forum and not multiple sections.

Good luck.

P.S. I am sure you know the answer to her aversion.
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So Im new to this platform and I would like to say hello to you guys!

I'm 24 years old and I think Iam in the wrong chat for this but I give it a try. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend since 2 months and she never wants to have sex with me. I don't know what to do, everytime I ask her why she tells me "because of your penis" how to interpret that? Thanks

Have you had sex with her before? If so, how did she react to that?

Have you asked her what she means? If so what does she say?
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