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post #31 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 03:20 PM
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Re: Sex in relationship


You had two threads on this topic. So I merged them. You will get better input with just on thread.

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post #32 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 03:24 PM
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Re: Sex in relationship

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I asked her many times and she always starts looking a bit ashamed so I don't know what she thinks if it's to big or to small.
It sounds like you ask, she will not really answer so you just let it go. You have to push the issue with her.

For example:

"That's not a good enough answer. You need to tell me exactly what the problem is, in detail."

Then if she will not tell you, you need to break up with her and go find someone else. A person who will not communicate effectively is not a good choice in a mate.

The purpose of dating is to find out if a person is a good match for a long term relationship. If she cannot/will not communicate problems to you and work on solutions then she is not worth your time and effort. She's not a good match for anyone, much less you. So move on.
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post #33 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 09:05 PM
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Re: Sex in relationship

Are you circumcised or uncircumcised OP? Could be that?

Are you smaller/larger than average? Could be that.

Is she a virgin and scared? Could be that.

Do you have poor personal hygiene? Could be that.

The only way you will know exactly what her problem is, is if you ask her to tell you exactly what it is. If she won't, then end it and move on.
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post #34 of 34 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 09:14 PM
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Re: Sex in relationship

Two months in and she doesn't want to have sex? How is this a marriage issue? You're obviously reading too much into this relationship and her discomfort is from being pressured. She's just not that into you anymore, either from you forcing yourself on her or her friends and family having talked some sense into her for putting out so soon. Sorry. Move on.
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